SIGNAL Parenting™: A Guided 8-Week Family Transformation

Guided Family Transformation

The SIGNAL Parenting Program™

A live, science-backed coaching experience for parents of neurodivergent kids who want to move from survival mode to sustainable success. From blowups and breakdowns to breakthroughs in 8 weeks. Because when kids feel good, they're able to do good.

YES! WE'RE READY FOR SOME REAL CHANGE!

If you’ve been living in constant tension and guessing what will set your child off, take a deep breath… this is what change can look like.

Imagine waking up and not bracing for the next meltdown or shutdown.

Your child feels safe, connected, and understood. You know exactly what to do in those intense moments, and you both recover faster.

Even the hard days feel different now, because you finally have a plan that works for your child and your family.

That’s what happens when you move from survival mode to sustainable success by addressing the nervous system first.

The struggle isn't your fault.

You've tried everything. Nothing sticks.

You just want to know your child will be okay, to see them happy, confident, and thriving again.

The problem isn’t your effort or your child’s motivation. Traditional tools skip the most important piece of the puzzle: the nervous system.

SIGNAL Parenting™ helps families move from survival mode to sustainable success by addressing the nervous system first.

Because behavior isn’t the problem, it’s the signal.

Most parenting programs focus on managing behavior…

SIGNAL Parenting™ focuses on interpreting it.

Grounded in neuroscience, SIGNAL Parenting is biologically sequenced to help families move from survival mode to sustainable success by addressing the nervous system first, not behavior.

When you know how to support safety and regulation in the body, the cooperation, problem-solving, and growth you’ve been working so hard for finally become possible.

Every parent here shares the same quiet wish: to know their child will be okay, to see them happy again, and to finally believe they can help. Here’s what that transformation looks like when you start parenting through the nervous system instead of against it.

See what changes when you make the shift…

Before SIGNAL Parenting™

After SIGNAL Parenting™

These changes aren’t theoretical. They’re what families experience when they start parenting through the nervous system instead of against it.

Thousands of parents around the world have used my courses, coaching, and summits to build calmer, more connected homes. Now, I’ll personally guide you through the process that changes everything.

Hello!

I'm Penny.

When my son was young, it felt like I was trying to fight a forest fire with a single bucket of water. Every day was survival mode — chasing the next flare-up, always ten steps behind, never able to catch my breath.

I read all the books. I followed all the advice.

But none of it touched the real problem: the intensity, the unpredictability, the way my child’s emotions could take over everything in an instant.

Everything shifted when I stopped trying to control the outbursts… and started focusing on the root: dysregulation.

I created SIGNAL Parenting™ to give parents what I wish I’d had: a science-backed, heart-centered roadmap that finally made sense of my child’s behavior. You don’t have to keep guessing. There’s a better way, and it starts here.

The SIGNAL Framework™

A clear roadmap for what to do, no matter what’s happening.

Each step follows the way the nervous system naturally moves from stress to safety. This allows you to respond in ways that truly help your child feel safe, seen, and supported, and transform challenges into successes.

We went from many meltdowns a day to an occasional meltdown every few months.
— Heidi

Spot the State

You’ll quickly recognize whether your child’s nervous system is in fight, flight, freeze, or flow to respond with understanding instead of frustration.

Interpret the Behavior

You’ll stop wondering why your child acts out or shuts down, now knowing exactly what their behavior is communicating, and what will help in that moment.

Ground Your Energy

You’ll catch yourself before the spiral. You’ll breathe, reset, and model regulation, teaching your child safety just by being steady.

Notice Needs & Emotions

You’ll start spotting what your child really needs — rest, movement, connection, space — and help them feel seen, safe, and supported.

Adjust Expectations & Environment

You’ll know how to change what’s possible: simplify routines, reduce overwhelm, and create environments where success is within reach.

Lead with Connection

You’ll lead with empathy, not control, and watch your child respond with trust, growth, and genuine connection.

Here's how the program works

Program Runs Dec 2 – Jan 31 (Holiday Break Dec 23–27)

Teaching Sessions: Tuesdays at 7 pm ET
Coaching + Co-Working Sessions: Thursdays at 12 pm ET

Let's break it down week by week

Groundwork for Growth

You start seeing behavior through a nervous-system lens.

Shift Your Perspective

You stop taking behavior personally and start seeing what it's signaling.

Identify the Causes

You recognize biological, sensory, and emotional triggers.

Respond through regulation

You know what to do when your child is melting down or shutting down.

Nurture connection

You create safety and cooperation through trust.

Teach Self-Regulation

Your child begins practicing tools for awareness and regulation.

Thrive

You help your child create successes in daily life and respond with understanding.

Integration

You finish with a personalized Family Success Roadmap built from the SIGNAL steps.

Here's what's included

Lessons, Coaching, Co-working

Apply the lessons in real time with direct guidance. 8 weeks of teaching and coaching & co-working sessions.

Private 1:1
calls

Personalized onboarding and wrap-up to tailor the program to your family and ensure your success.

Direct access coaching

Ongoing voice/text support with Penny between sessions, replying to messages twice daily.

Private
community

Private community for SIGNAL participants inside the program hub for connecting with families who get it.

Digital Workbook

A co-working guide with prompts, exercises, and notes to help you apply each lesson in your family’s daily life.

Regulation Toolkit

Includes the Behavior Wheel, Feelings Wheel, Regulation Activities Cards, and the My Feelings Poster, ready to use.

Lifetime Access

Ongoing access to the class recordings and the on-demand Survival to Success Accelerator course.

Success Roadmap

A customized plan you’ll build to support your child’s nervous-system needs and sustain progress.

You'll walk away with a clear plan that finally fits your child, not someone else’s system.

Tools that make regulation and connection part of everyday life.

Confidence in what to do when things get hard.

A calmer home where everyone feels seen, safe, and supported.

The relief of knowing you have a roadmap that actually works.

This Program is for you if:

You have a neurodivergent kid

Kids ages 5–25 (living at home with parents) with ADHD, anxiety, and/or autism (Level 1 or 2).

You're ready for lasting change

Families who are tired of quick fixes and ready to do the work to create sustainable success.

You want support for yourself too

You want science-backed guidance that honors both your child and your own experience.

Why Addressing the Nervous System First Changes Everything

You’ll stop reacting to your child’s behavior and start responding to what their body is communicating. That shift, backed by science and supported by community, creates the foundation for growth, confidence, and genuine

peace at home.

Our home is a much nicer place for us all to be, so a huge thank you from our whole family! — Charlie

What Happens When Your Child Finally Feels Safe

When your child feels safe, they can focus, learn, and grow. When you feel grounded, your home becomes the safest place in their world.

This isn’t just a parenting program. It’s the start of a ripple effect that changes your child’s confidence, your family’s peace, and the future you’re building together.

Real families. Real breakthroughs. Real change.

See What Parents Are Saying (and Feeling)

Heidi

"We went from many meltdowns a day to an occasional meltdown every few months."

The Survival to Success Accelerator has really helped me understand what is going on for my daughter. I no longer see my daughter as an aggressor, but a person that needs support. The course has helped us to go from several meltdowns every day to the occasional meltdown every few months, but even those are not as intense. I feel so much more in tune with my daughter's needs.

Charlie

"Our home is a much nicer place to be for us all."

I just wanted to say a big thank you for your Survival to Success Accelerator programme. We still have some difficult days, but our home is a much nicer place to be for us all. I really enjoyed the course — I keep rewatching bits and building on our progress. It helped me understand my lovely daughters and be a calmer,more connected parent. We are so much in a better space so a huge thank you from our whole family!

Robin

"We're growing a snowball of successes."

My child's challenges related to ADHD and ASD have the power to completely derail our family's daily dynamics, but as I've learned more about these challenges in the Survival to Success Accelerator and have taken the time to get really curious about what my child needs to feel safe and regulated, two pretty amazing things happened: I stopped putting my child in situations he "should" be able to navigate (in spite of evidence that he can't, yet), and safety and trust have grown from fewer disastrous "'should' but can't" situations. It's given my son the space to regulate, learn, and experience a growing snowball of small successes built on small successes.

Carol Stock Kranowitz, "Out-of-Sync Child"

"This Program gets my highest praise and fullest endorsement."

Employing their techniques, parents and kids learn to get in sync with one another while transforming their old chaotic interactions into newly connected ways.

Caron Starobin, LCSW-C

"These tools are outstanding."

I refer families to this program because the parent support amplifies the therapeutic support my associates and I offer our clients. In addition, it offers tools for teaching practical and effective parenting skills for kids who dysregulate quickly or easily.

Xochitl

"I feel understood."

The calm authority Penny & Sarah have helps me to stay in the green zone and feel understood. I'd like to have these teachings on continuous play in my mind until they sink in fully.

SEEN IN

How to Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program

You deserve to feel supported and confident, not overwhelmed and alone. That’s why this program combines science, coaching, and community — everything you need for change that lasts.

Enrollment is limited so every family gets personal support. Once the 25 spots are filled, registration closes until the next cohort in (late spring or summer).

1-TIME PAYMENT

$797

3-MONTHLY PAYMENTS

$287/month

Co-parent included free • 8 weeks of live coaching and lifetime access to materials

Apply for the program.

Complete a short application so we can be sure the program is a good fit for your family’s needs.

Get your invitation.

If accepted, you’ll receive a personal invitation with your registration link and details.

Begin your transformation.

We’ll schedule your onboarding call and ship your Toolkit so you’re ready to start on December 2.

(Applications close Nov 9 or when all spots are filled.)

You’ve already spent hundreds, maybe thousands on therapies, books, and systems that didn’t get to the root cause. Programs that offer this level of coaching and personalization often cost several thousand dollars . But I want this support to stay within reach for the families who need it most.

This program doesn’t add more to your plate; it helps everything else finally work.

The Ripple Effect: How Peace and Progress Spread at Home

This isn’t just a parenting program. It’s the start of a chain reaction.

When you regulate first, the benefits spread everywhere: calmer mornings, easier school days, smoother family relationships, and a sense of peace you can feel.

Your Questions, Answered

Common questions parents ask about THe SIGNAL Parenting Program:

What if I don’t have time for another program right now?

That’s one of the first signs this program might actually be what you need most. SIGNAL Parenting™ isn’t about adding more to your plate — it’s about helping everything else finally work.

Each week, you’ll attend one 60-minute teaching session and one 75-minute coaching + co-working call. Replays are available, and you’ll have time built into the sessions to apply what you learn, so it doesn’t become “homework.”

And because this is about nervous-system-first parenting, you’ll find yourself doing less reacting, repeating, and crisis management, which means getting time back in your day, not losing it.

What if I can't attend live?

All sessions are recorded, and you’ll have lifetime access to the replays. Many parents watch replays on their own time and still see incredible results, because the co-working design helps you take action each week, even if you watch later.

Plus, you’ll have access to Penny for message-based coaching in the hub throughout the 8 weeks, so you can get feedback and support in between calls.

What if my partner isn't on board yet.

You can still create major change on your own.
When one parent begins responding differently, the entire family system starts to shift.

If the co-parent in your home wants to join, they’re welcome at no additional cost. If not, you’ll still have the support and community you need to make real progress.

We've already tried everything. How do I know this will actually help?

That’s exactly where most families start. The reason nothing else has worked is because traditional behavior strategies skip the root cause: the nervous system.

SIGNAL Parenting™ is science-backed and built on Polyvagal Theory, nervous-system regulation, and decades of research on connection and safety.

You’re not learning tips or tricks. You’re learning the biology of behavior and how to respond to what’s really happening in your child’s body and brain.

Once you start addressing the nervous system first, everything else you’ve tried — therapy, coping tools, communication strategies — finally starts to click.

How is this different from the on-demand Survival to Success Accelerator course?

The Accelerator is self-paced and focuses on the foundational concepts.

SIGNAL Parenting™ takes that foundation live, combines it with the SIGNAL Framework, plus real-time support, personalized coaching, and implementation built in.

You’ll co-work on your workbook each week, get feedback on your family’s roadmap, and apply the SIGNAL framework with Penny guiding you step-by-step. It’s not just learning… it’s transformation in action.

What if money is tight right now?

That’s a valid concern, and one many parents share.

Here’s the truth: you’ve probably already invested in strategies that didn’t work because they didn’t get to the root cause. This program changes that.

You’ll receive live coaching, personalized feedback, a mailed Regulation Toolkit, and a lifetime roadmap you can use long after the 8 weeks are over.

A payment plan is available (3 monthly payments), and spaces are limited to ensure every family gets personal attention.

If your family is ready to move out of survival mode, this investment pays itself forward in peace, progress, and confidence.

What kind of results will I see in 8 weeks?

You’ll see shifts in yourself first — calmer reactions, more clarity, fewer power struggles, and more connection. And as your regulation changes, your child’s does too.

Most families report fewer meltdowns and shutdowns, faster recovery after big emotions, and moments of connection that used to feel impossible.

By the end of the 8 weeks, you’ll have a personalized Family Success Roadmap to sustain progress long after the program ends.

Is the program right for my child's age or diagnosis?

SIGNAL Parenting™ is designed for parents of neurodivergent kids ages 5–25 with ADHD, anxiety, autism (Level 1 or 2), or similar traits. The framework supports any child whose behavior is driven by nervous-system responses, which includes all kids, especially those with emotional intensity or regulation challenges.

You’ll learn tools that can be adapted for your child’s age, development, and individual needs.

Do you offer a guarantee?

Yes. If you show up and do the work, my promise is that you’ll leave the first two weeks with a new level of clarity about your child’s behavior and how to support them.

If you don’t feel that understanding beginning to take shape, reach out and we’ll talk about your experience and make it right.

What happens after the 8 weeks?

You’ll have lifetime access to the lessons and recordings, plus your completed Family Success Roadmap.

After the live program ends, you’ll be invited to continue your growth inside The Regulated Kids Project™, where you can keep building skills for your child’s emotional awareness, resilience, and regulation.

What's the first step?

Because this is a small, high-support program, participation is by application only.

Click here to apply, and we’ll make sure it’s the right fit for your family’s goals and readiness before you commit.

If you’re ready to stop reacting and start rebuilding peace and connection, this is your moment. Your child’s breakthrough begins when you take the first step.

Guided Family Transformation Program

SIGNAL Parenting™

From survival mode to sustainable success in 8 weeks.

More than anything, you want to know your child will be okay — and to feel confident you can help them get there.

You’ve already done the hardest part: showing up, again and again.
Now it’s time for the support, clarity, and roadmap that finally make it work.

That’s what SIGNAL Parenting™ is built for.

With so much heart,

Penny