Your kid's behavior isn’t the problem, it’s the signal.

Practical support for neurodivergent kids when the usual advice doesn’t work.

Support for parents of kids with ADHD, autism, anxiety, and learning differences.

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You don't need another strategy, script, or sticker chart.

Most parents land here after trying tools that were never designed for the way their child’s brain and nervous system work.

What you need is support that starts with what your child’s nervous system can actually handle.

That’s the starting point here.

Nervous System First Parenting

Not more of what already isn’t working.

Parenting neurodivergent kids with ADHD, autism, anxiety, or learning differences requires a different starting point.

Skills and behavior can actually improve when you start with the nervous system and regulation. And that’s the lens behind every program here.

You’ll find an option designed for your real life: a clear framework to guide how you respond, ongoing support to build regulation skills over time, or help getting out of survival mode.

SIGNAL Parenting™

Foundational Support | Live + Mentored

A nervous-system-first foundation that changes how you respond everywhere.

This is for you if:

Regulated Kids Project

Ongoing support | Co-Working + community

Support that grows with your child, and with your entire family.

This is for you if:

Survival to Success Accelerator

On-demand | Immediate support

A clear path out of survival mode to help your child and your family thrive.

This is for you if:

Parent training designed for your neurodivergent kid and your real life.

Why this works when the usual advice hasn't.

Most parenting advice starts with behavior, even when a child’s nervous system isn’t ready.

When kids are overwhelmed, strategies don’t stick. Reasoning doesn’t land. And everyone ends up more frustrated.

This parenting starts somewhere different: nervous system capacity — so learning, cooperation, and skill-building can actually happen. Not by lowering expectations, but by matching support to what your child’s brain and body can handle in that moment.

That’s why parents often say this feels different right away. Not because it’s easier, but because it finally makes sense.

It's Support that adapts to real kids with all types of differences.

for your real life

This approach isn’t designed for just one “type” of child. Parents use these programs with young kids, teens, and young adults — with kids who act out, freak out, or zone out,…or fall somewhere in between.

Support adapts to the child in front of you, because everything starts with regulation and nervous system capacity, not a checklist or a diagnosis.

Perfection isn't required. You’re learning how to adjust in real time, based on what’s actually happening. That flexibility is what makes change possible.

A humanistic approach for elementary kids, tweens, teens and young adults.

Real Families. Real Results.

I've helped  thousands of neurodiverse families like yours. Now it's your turn.

You deserve to feel this relief, too.

hello!

I'm Penny.

I'm a behavior and parenting coach specializing in nervous-system-first support for neurodivergent kids and their families. For over 10 years, I’ve helped parents translate neuroscience into real-life responses that actually work, even under stress.

My work integrates nervous system science, a whole lot of lived experience, and practical parent language so families can move forward without shame, desperation, or guesswork.

I've helped thousands of neurodiverse families like yours. Now it's your turn.

Not sure where to start?

If you want a foundation that changes how you respond → SIGNAL Parenting™

If you want ongoing support that adapts over time → Regulated Kids Project

If you need immediate help, on-demand → Survival to Success Accelerator™

Let's get really clear on what's driving your kid's behavior.

It all starts with identifying your child’s baseline stress response. That’s where the FREE Animal Instincts Quiz comes in.

In 3 minutes, you’ll discover if your child’s go-to stress response is fight, flight, or freeze (or if they’re in their regulated state). You’ll get tailored insights and quick-start strategies to support their nervous system right now.

Follow the Signal. Change the Story.
Learn to navigate the

beautifully complex

human experience.

Get weekly insights and actionable strategies on parenting neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning disabilities… We’re decoding behavior while honoring neurodiversity, and learning to parent the individual child you have.

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Free resources created just for you.

Animal Instincts Quiz

Decode your child’s behavior in just 3 minutes and start following the signal.

3 High-Impact Actions to Transform behavior now

Mini-course to put SIGNAL Parenting™ into action immediately.

Meltdowns Cheat Sheet

Respond in ways that truly help.

FREE BEAUTIFULLY COMPLEX COMMUNITY

Get support with expert guidance, peer connection, practical resources, and encouragement.

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Applications now Open!

What if your child’s hardest moments weren’t something to fix, but something you could finally interpret?

The SIGNAL Parenting™ Program is an 8-week, guided experience for parents ready to stop reacting to behavior and start understanding what’s underneath it. You’ll learn to decode your child’s nervous system, respond with connection instead of control, and foster more regulation, confidence, and growth.

🗓 Apply by November 9th
🚀 Program starts December 2nd

Limited small-group spots available for families ready to follow the signal, and change their story.

Go from reacting in the moment to creating lasting change.

Join us for the free Behavior SOS Summit.

Turn daily battles into breakthroughs. Join 26 experts over 4 free days for practical tools and a framework to decode behavior and create more peace at home and school — without shame, blame, or quick fixes. This Summit is where overwhelm softens, clarity rises, and everything starts to shift.

Oct. 10-13, 2025