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Survival to Success Accelerator™

Your Roadmap out of survival mode

It is possible to raise a neurodivergent kid without all the yelling, bickering, nagging, begging, and pure desperation. It is possible for your child to achieve success and live their truth at the same time. You can step out of the crises and into clarity.

I'M IN!

It's time to turn frustration and overwhelm into a clear and custom roadmap for helping your child live their best life.

Are you exhausted by all the disconnection and dysregulation? The big emotions and big behaviors? Does it feel like your kid is almost always acting out, freaking out, or zoning out?

We get it! Starting out, we spent all our time trying to “fix” our neurodivergent kids' struggles, because we didn't know another way. What we failed to realize is that there's no “fixing” it — instead, we the parents, are the ones that need to change, not our kids.

Our effort was 110%… but our impact on improvement was negligible.

We lived in survival mode. We felt like failures as moms… and then came the big shift.

Now we'd like to share that big shift with you, and the very same process we used to transform our families...

Introducing the

Survival to Success Accelerator™

The Survival to Success Accelerator™ is a 7 module parent training program that provides both the blueprint and the tools to calm the chaos and reactivity, foster connection, and transform challenging behavior.

My Feelings Poster

Create a reference of emotions and related regulation exercises to facilitate self-regulation and autonomy.

Regulation Activity Cards

60+ regulation activities and exercises, boxed and ready to use anytime, anywhere.

On-Demand Course

Parent training to calm reactivity, foster connection, and transform big emotions and big behaviors.

Take Action Workbook

Guided exercises following the Crisis to Clarity Blueprint to personalize your learning and apply directly to your family's needs.

Feelings Wheel & Behavior Wheel

Decode behavior clues and boost emotional awareness.

What the Accelerator offers you and your family...

The Crisis to Clarity Blueprint in the Survival to Success Accelerator™ will help you…

Get through a day without a crisis

(working up to long stretches without any crises).

Become proactive instead of reactive

in your daily parenting and experience far less stress, self-blame, and doubt.

Create and hold space for joy

for your child, your parenting, and your family.

Teach your child to manage their big emotions.

Enjoy a peaceful home with less turmoil and more success.

Unlock the greatness within your child

and help them discover how to let it shine through.

Help your kid through stress and prevent most meltdowns altogether.

Changes you'll experience:

more peace

Peaceful, constructive interactions become your new normal.

Instead of power struggles, yelling, or emotional chaos, your days are filled with calm conversations, clear expectations, and mutual understanding—even when things get hard.

sense of safety

Your home feels like a safe, supportive space for all.

Meltdowns are fewer and less intense. You know how to co-regulate and guide your child through big emotions without escalating. Everyone breathes easier.

more clarity

You feel confident, equipped, and empowered.

With a science-backed framework and tools that actually work, you parent with purpose. You’re no longer stuck in survival mode — you’re leading your family forward with clarity and strength.

more connection

Your connection with your child deepens and strengthens.

Instead of constant correction, your relationship is rooted in trust, empathy, and emotional safety. You see your child for who they are, and they feel seen, heard, and supported.

more hope

You stop feeling isolated and start feeling hopeful.

You’re part of a community of parents walking the same path. You have expert support and a clear plan — and for the first time in a long time, you know you’re not alone and you're not lost. You're moving forward.

LET'S DO THIS! TAKE ME TO REGISTRATION!

Say hello to the roadmap you've been looking for.

This isn’t just about managing meltdowns — it’s about building a toolkit that empowers your child to thrive emotionally, socially, and academically while bringing connection and peace back to your family.

Shift Your Perspective on Behavior

When your child loses it, it’s difficult to avoid interpreting their behavior as manipulative, intentional, or personal. It feels rude, disrespectful, oppositional, defiant, lazy, etc…

That’s why it’s imperative to adopt a new perspective on behavior first. You'll learn to reframe behavior in a way that is scientifically-backed and actually works for neurodivergent kids. Understanding that there’s a LOT more to behavior than what you see on the surface will help you begin to decode behavior.

Identify the Causes of Challenging Behavior

Biology and behavior are deeply interconnected. While your child’s behavior may feel intentional, in reality it is much more likely to be a biological stress response to a situation where their needs are not being met, they feel unsafe, or they aren’t able to meet expectations.

We'll show you how to determine what's going on in your child's body and brain both during challenging behavior and when things are going well.

What to Do When Your Kid is Having a Hard Time

Understanding what’s going on in your child’s body and brain is important, but it’s only the first step to transforming behavior. Now we’re going to tackle step two: what to do when your child is experiencing intensity, aggression, or meltdown. There are certain strategies that are most useful at particular points in these situations, and many that are instinctual for parents, but totally unhelpful.

Nurture Your Relationship with Your Kid

By now you'll have a greater understanding of your child and yourself, and, in particular, what drives your child’s behavior, and your own. But, the crucial next step, before teaching your child new skills, is to bolster and nurture your relationship with your child. Now we’re going to provide strategies for connecting with your child and helping them do what needs to be done.

Teach Awareness & Self-Regulation

Some kids have a harder time with self-regulation. Changing your behavior will help them, but they also need to learn how to take charge of their own bodies and behavior. Helping your children understand what is going on in their bodies, how they are feeling and what it means — in addition to learning calm-down strategies uniquely selected for them — will help them take control so they can feel better and do better, and learn to do hard things.

Transformation in action!

look at these results!

Robin

"We're growing snowball of small successes built on small successes."

My child's challenges related to ADHD and ASD have the power to completely derail our family's daily dynamics, but as I've learned more about these challenges in the Survival to Success Accelerator and have taken the time to get really curious about what my child needs to feel safe and regulated, two pretty amazing things happened: I stopped putting my child in situations he "should" be able to navigate (in spite of evidence that he can't, yet), and safety and trust have grown from fewer disastrous "'should' but can't" situations. It's given my son the space to regulate, learn, and experience a growing snowball of small successes built on small successes.

Charlie

"Our home is a much nicer place to be for us all."

I just wanted to say a big thank you for your Survival to Success Accelerator programme. We still have some difficult days, but our home is a much nicer place to be for us all. I really enjoyed the course — I keep rewatching bits and building on our progress. It helped me understand my lovely daughters and be a calmer,more connected parent. We are so much in a better space so a huge thank you from our whole family!

Carol Stock Kranowitz, "Out-of-Sync Child"

"This Program gets my highest praise and fullest endorsement."

Employing their techniques, parents and kids learn to get in sync with one another while transforming their old chaotic interactions into newly connected ways.

Heidi

"We went from many meltdowns a day to an occasional meltdown every few months."

The Survival to Success Accelerator has really helped me understand what is going on for my daughter. I no longer see my daughter as an aggressor, but a person that needs support. The course has helped us to go from several meltdowns every day to the occasional meltdown every few months, but even those are not as intense. I feel so much more in tune with my daughter's needs.

Caron Starobin, LCSW-C

"These tools are outstanding."

I refer families to this program because the parent support amplifies the therapeutic support my associates and I offer our clients. In addition, it offers tools for teaching practical and effective parenting skills for kids who dysregulate quickly or easily.

Xochitl

"I feel understood."

The calm authority Penny & Sarah have helps me to stay in the green zone and feel understood. I'd like to have these teachings on continuous play in my mind until they sink in fully.

Hello!

We're Penny & Sarah!

We've helped thousands of parents like you create improvement for the neurodivergent kids in their lives, and we can help you too.

We are parenting coaches for neurodiverse families. And, we are one of you. We are both raising neurodivergent kids who are now all young adults. We've been in the trenches and we've parented on our own terms, creating improvement and happy families. Not always-happy families, but families with lots of joy.

We transform the science on behavior into real-life insights and strategies parents can easily apply and succeed with in everyday life with neurodivergent kids.

SEEN IN

Is the Survival to Accelerator right for you?

You’ve had a diagnosis for a while, but you feel like you’re spinning your wheels. Nothing you do is helping enough to see solid improvement.

You've tried reward charts and token systems, stricter rules and discipline, and micro-management with little to no success.

You're living in survival mode just trying to make it from one crisis to the next.

You wish you had a better connection and relationship with your child.

You feel like you just have no idea what to do about challenging behavior anymore.

THAT'S ME! I'M IN!

Here's what's included…

On-demand course

Pre-recorded course modules complete with easily digestible videos, downloadable worksheets and additional resources. Forever access.

Regulation Toolkit

This kit includes the Behavior Wheel, Feelings Wheel, Regulation Activities Cards, and the My Feelings Poster, ready to use.

Workbook

The companion workbook is filled with worksheets and activities to help you personalize the concepts and take action on what you're learning.

1 Year of Support Calls

Accelerator students meet up with Penny and Sarah once a month on Zoom to connect, troubleshoot, and feel less alone.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions parents ask about Regulated Kids Project:

Who is this program for?

The Survival to Success Accelerator™ is for caregivers raising kids with ADHD and/or autism and the co-existing conditions that often come with those diagnoses. This course is also good for parents of kids with significant anxiety, even without ADHD or autism.

Am I going to be able to implement what I learned and the Regulation Toolkit effectively at home?

We have designed this program to walk you through everything you need to use the tools and implement the system with your family effectively. Plus, we meet online monthly to support you.

What ages will this program work for?

The program is designed for kids ages 4 and up. You'll adapt some of the techniques depending on the age of your child. For example, sometimes teens won’t engage with you on something like the Feelings Poster. But you can implement it for yourself (so your kid can watch you trying to use the tools) or you can have everyone in the family work on it so one child doesn’t feel singled out. Or you may not use the Feelings Poster at all, which won't compromise your results.

Is this going to be the program that finally makes a difference for us?

We're betting it is. This is the information and approach that has helped our own kids and families and so many of our clients. If you find that it's not the right fit for you, we will honor that with a 14-day money-back guarantee.

Do I really have time to take this course? I don't feel like I do.

Let us ask you a question: Do you have the time NOT to? Struggling for years will definitely waste a lot of time, not to mention the toll on your mental and emotional health, your child's mental and emotional health, and your relationship with your child. You can always make the time for what you feel is most important. Put in the time now to save loads of time (and sanity) over the long haul.

LET'S START THE TRANSFORMATION!