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Hi Penny…. I attended the autism summit and something you said has really stuck with me. You mentioned that you got your son evaluated multiple times before he got diagnosed with autism spectrum…. what is the advantage of the diagnosis? My son ( adopted from China at 17 months)…has ADHD… at the very least ( he is 11 now). Our tutor told me she thinks he is on the spectrum. He has gotten so much testing… but wondering what the advantage is?
The advantage for us was understanding some of his challenges and behaviors better, which meant we could address them more effectively. I actually pursued the diagnosis because I thought educators and teachers would finally take his challenges seriously (so many don't understand ADHD or think it's an excuse). It didn't help educators understand better or take his challenges more seriously, but it did help us as a family.