Regulation changes everything.

For your child. For you. For life.

Parenting a neurodivergent child doesn’t have to feel like walking on eggshells. Regulated Kids Project is a supportive membership that helps parents we teach the real skills that lead to emotional regulation, confidence, and resilience.

i see you.

You've been holding so much for so long.

You’re the one who sees it coming.

The meltdown before the math worksheet.
The storm brewing in the backseat on the ride home.
The tight chest before bedtime even starts.

And through it all, YOU'RE STILL SHOWING UP.
Still searching. Still trying. Still hoping there’s something better than this.

You don’t need another strategy to manage meltdowns.

You need the skills that prevent them.

You’ve been stuck in survival mode — just trying to make it through the day without another explosion or shutdown. It’s exhausting. And it’s not your fault. But what if the answer isn’t in managing the behavior… but in growing the skills underneath it?

Skills like:

Recognizing what’s happening in their body

Naming emotions

Knowing what helps them feel safe

Asking for what they need

Inside the Regulated Kids Project, we help you teach these core emotional and regulation skills so your child can start doing something they haven't been able to do before: fall apart less, bounce back faster, and learn what to do with big emotions.

This isn’t about quick fixes. We're going to

build what lasts.

Hello!

I'm Penny.

When my son was young, it felt like I was trying to fight a forest fire with a single bucket of water. Every day was survival mode — chasing the next flare-up, always ten steps behind, never able to catch my breath.

I read all the books. I followed all the advice.

But none of it touched the real problem: the intensity, the unpredictability, the way my child’s emotions could take over everything in an instant.

I didn’t need more reward charts. I needed to understand why everything felt so hard for him — and for me.

Everything shifted when I stopped trying to control the outbursts… and started focusing on the root: dysregulation.

When I learned how the nervous system worked — when I finally understood what was happening inside him — I could respond with clarity instead of desperation. With compassion instead of shame. With a plan instead of just hoping it wouldn’t all fall apart again.

That’s what the Regulated Kids Project gives you

a plan of action

Not just tools. A new foundation — one that anchors with felt safety, builds real regulation, and supports lifelong emotional growth for your child and for you.

Thriving starts in the nervous system.

Think of regulation and EQ as what holds everything else up. These skills are foundational.

Researchers at Yale and Harvard confirm that emotional intelligence predicts life satisfaction and success more than IQ alone — with fewer mental health challenges, stronger finances, and better well-being than kids who struggled to self-regulate.

In other words: what RKP helps you teach your child doesn’t just help them now. It shapes

the rest of their life.

This is what real change actually looks like.

An evening where no one stormed away from the dinner table.

Being able to leave the house without a meltdown over seams in socks.

A bedtime routine that ends in snuggles, instead of struggles.

Your child saying “I need a break,” instead of throwing something.

A conflict that ends with “I’m mad,” instead of “I hate you!”

more peace + connection

tools that meet you in the moment

Regulated Kids Project provides what you need, when you need it.

The Regulated Kids Project gives you simple, doable tools to help your child (and yourself) through big feelings, tough moments, and everything in between. These aren’t “someday” strategies. They’re things you can actually use today, even if you’re running on fumes.

Playful ways to help your child notice and name emotions

Fun activities (like emotion dice, silly charades, or creature builders) that sneak in emotional learning without pressure or eye rolls.

Simple routines that actually make life simpler

Easy visual charts and family rituals that reduce surprises and help your child feel safe and settled during transitions and beyond.

understanding of what's going on beneath the behavior

Short, eye-opening parent lessons that connect the dots between your child’s actions and their nervous system — so you can stop second-guessing and start truly helping.

Help when everything is falling apart

Step-by-step meltdown guides, recovery plans, and calming tools that show you exactly what to do in the moment.

Real support from people who get it

No judgment. No shame. Just other parents walking this road with you, plus expert coaching when you need more guidance.

How It Works

A short parent lesson

3-4 activities, guides, or games

Weekly growth steps

2x live coaching calls

24/7 community + Lumi Bot

1

Start with the growth path.

Focus on one new skill each month using mini-lessons and playful child activities.

2

Try it with your child.

Use fun activities and real-world tools to help your child build regulation skills.

3

Check in for support.

Come to our 2x monthly live coaching calls or share questions in the community.

4

Feel the shift.

With each step, you'll see your child — and yourself — respond differently.

Real people. real results.

Regulation unlocks relief. Consistent growth keeps it going.

You can do this!

Here's what will be different with Regulated Kids Project…

Your child learns to regulate.

Family life feels safer, smoother, more connected.

You finally know what to do in hard moments.

Join us!

Everything you need to support your child, and finally feel supported yourself.

Weekly Growth Steps

Weekly actions to implement in daily life, promoting growth and steady progress on the success path.

Parent Mini-Lesson

A concise, focused lesson introducing the monthly theme and its importance, backed by brain science.

Parent-Child Activities

2-3 engaging activities, exercises, or games to foster connection and skill-building.

2 Monthly Coaching Calls

An opportunity to ask questions, share experiences, and receive personalized guidance. PLUS, guest expert sessions.

24/7 Instant Answers

AI-powered parenting assistant, trained by vetted experts and full of parenting wisdom.

Private Community

with parents who get your complex journey

ANNUAL PLAN

$29.17/month


Billed annually at $350 USD

MONTHLY PLAN

$35/month


Billed monthly at $35 USD

No questions asked money-back guarantee. If you don't love it in 30 days, we'll refund you.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions parents ask about Regulated Kids Project:

How much time will this take? I can barely get through the day as it is!

Don’t worry — this isn't another task for your to-do list! Each lesson is designed for busy parents, so think practical tips you can implement on the go, like “Here’s how to handle a meltdown half-way through the grocery.” You’ll be able to take what works for you and your kid. Less time than reading every parenting article and book out there, I promise!

What if my kid has a meltdown while I’m trying to teach them skills?

Been there! The truth is, you cannot teach skills when your child is dysregulated. So part of what you'll learn in the Regulated Kids Project is when to teach and when to stop talking. Yeah, sometimes you've got to stop talking — it's a critical strategy you'll learn and it will reduce meltdowns. 

Is this just more parenting advice that won’t work for my kid?

I get it (because I lived it) — traditional parenting advice is usually disastrous for complex kids. This resource is tailored for parents just like you, offering strategies specifically for kids who are chronically dysregulated and need extra support managing big emotions. If it feels like nothing else has worked, we are your people! This isn't about “just try harder.” I'm all about “let’s try something different” (which also happens to be backed by brain science).

What if I don’t have the energy for a big lifestyle change?

The Regulated Kids Project was designed for you! It's all about small changes woven into daily life to get big results. You don’t need to upend your life to make change! I'm all about small, realistic steps that fit into your existing routines. Think of it as adding a little peace to your day, not an all-new agenda. Let’s be real — if a lifestyle overhaul was required, I wouldn’t sign up either.

What makes this different from other parenting programs?

I am essentially you, just at a different age and stage. I raised a neurodivergent kid. I struggled. It wasn't until years into it that I learned about the crucial role of regulation and emotional intelligence.  If I was starting my parenting journey at the beginning today, regulation and emotional intelligence would be my #1 priority. It sets the foundation for lifelong success. 

What if my child is older? Will this still help?

Absolutely. The tools I teach are adaptable across ages. Whether your child’s five, fifteen, or twenty-five, learning self-regulation and emotional management can have a profound impact on their relationships, school success, and confidence. So, no age limit on learning these skills!

How fast will I start seeing results?

I’d love to say “overnight transformation,” but realistically, every child and every family is different. You’ll start seeing small shifts right away as you implement the strategies and activities you learn, and these will add up to lasting change. Even a 20% reduction in blowups can feel like a huge win, right?

Will I be able to talk with other parents? I feel like I’m the only one dealing with this.

Absolutely! The Regulated Kids Project community is designed to be a lifeline for parents who feel isolated and alone. You’ll connect with others who’ve been there, done that (and maybe even navigate meltdowns at Target on the regular too). I’ve got your back, so this is a judgment-free zone.

Isn’t this just another monthly expense I’ll forget to use?

I'm doing everything in my power to make it engaging and easy to use. But, ultimately, it is up to you. The Regulated Kids Project is designed to give you practical tools that you’ll want to use every day, especially when you start seeing results. And since the goal is to make life more peaceful and stable, the value shows up where it counts: a more peaceful home and a more regulated kid.

What if I try it and it’s not for me and my kid?

No worries! If you don’t feel it’s right for you in the first 14 days, just let me know and I'll refund you. I'm here to make life better, not more complicated. But I think you’ll find it’s just what you need!

SEEN IN

Build Understanding

So you stop guessing and start responding

Provide Tools

So you’re not left empty-handed when things get hard

Create Belonging

So you feel less alone and more supported

Foster Growth

So every small win builds toward lifelong change