Go from reacting in the moment to creating lasting change.

When behavior feels intense, it’s easy to focus on stopping the moment instead of understanding the cause. But behavior is communication — your child’s nervous system sending signals about safety, stress, or unmet needs. Once you know how to read those signals, everything changes.

Go from reacting in the moment to creating lasting change.

When behavior feels intense, it’s easy to focus on stopping the moment instead of understanding the cause. But behavior is communication — your child’s nervous system sending signals about safety, stress, or unmet needs. Once you know how to read those signals, everything changes.

Feel like you've tried everything and nothing works?

you're not alone.

Some days, it feels like you’re bracing for impact from the moment you wake up. One small thing goes wrong and suddenly… the shoes are flying, the tears are rolling, or your kid shut down altogether.

You’ve read the books. You’ve tried the charts. You’ve begged Google to guide you.

But the meltdowns keep coming. The outbursts keep blindsiding you. And you’re left wondering:

“What am I missing? Why can’t I fix this?”

Here’s the truth: you do NOT need to “fix” your child. What you need is a new way of seeing behavior. One that gets underneath the surface and shows you the why, so you can finally respond in a way that actually helps.

That’s exactly what the Behavior SOS Summit was created to do.

Because the longer you stay stuck in reaction mode, the harder it feels — for both you and your child.

From conflict to connection

This is your antidote for big emotions + big behaviors.

This isn't a fix, it's a framework.

When your child’s behavior feels intense, it’s natural to jump straight into managing the moment. But that often means you’re working on the symptom instead of the source.

Because here’s the truth: behavior is communication. It’s your child’s nervous system sending you a signal — about safety, stress, or an unmet need.

When you learn how to notice and understand those signals, you can:

Respond in ways that help your child return to regulation faster

Stop feeling like you’re guessing

Create a home where trust grows and tension fades

The Behavior SOS Summit is a nervous system–based blueprint that will transform how you respond, and how your child feels. 

Ready to start making that shift? Here’s what’s waiting for you inside the Behavior SOS…

Here's What's Waiting for You, Free for 4 days

A lifetime of impact for your kid.

When you save your spot, you’ll get access to everything you need to start seeing your child’s behavior in a whole new way. Your free summit access includes:

24 Expert Workshops

6 sessions per day for 4 days

Practical strategies and insights you can start using right away, from some of the most trusted voices in parenting, education, and neurodivergence.

Animal Instincts Quiz + Guide

Know your child. Shape your approach.

Learn how your child’s nervous system responds under stress so you can adapt every strategy you learn in the summit to meet their unique needs. 

Live Kickoff Masterclass

Why Nothing’s Worked (Yet): The One Shift That Changes Everything

Join me live on Oct. 3rd at 6pm EDT to discover the nervous system–first shift that makes all other parenting strategies work better.

Pre-Summit Orientation + Grounding

Feel Safe & Supported, Maximize your results

Start with Let’s Do This Gently, a short video and PDF to help you set intentions, pace yourself, and get the most out of the summit. Then, each day, receive a brief grounding prompt in your inbox — a calming moment to help you process what you’re learning and apply it in real life.

Your free pass gets you 4 days of expert guidance, plus strategies that actually work in your toughest parenting moments.

Praise for Past Summits

Are you ready to go from…

X

Constant reactivity

Regulated responses that actually help

X

Conflict and correction

Connection and cooperation

X

Guessing what your child needs

Knowing how to meet them where they are

X

Feeling drained and defeated

Feeling supported and confident

This summit won’t give you a one-size-fits-all “fix.” But it will give you the understanding, tools, and support you need to finally get underneath the behavior — so you can respond in ways that help your child feel safe, seen, and capable.

imagine…

Imagine waking up without that knot in your stomach, no longer bracing for the next blowup before the day even begins. Picture knowing exactly what to do when your child melts down, shuts down, or pushes back — and watching them come back to you faster, calmer, more connected. Feel what it’s like to move through your days as teammates instead of adversaries, with fewer battles and more understanding.This isn’t about erasing every big feeling or behavior — those are part of being human. It’s about building the trust, safety, and skills that make your home feel steadier, your relationship stronger, and real change possible.

Behavior SOS is where overwhelm softens, clarity rises, and everything starts to shift.

Behavior SOS Summit 2025
Guidance You Can Trust

transformation you can feel

This isn't just another summit lineup. Behavior SOS speakers are parents, educators, therapists, and advocates who truly understand the realities of raising and teaching complex kids.

They’ve been in the trenches, walked through the messy moments, and found ways to create real change without shame, blame, or quick fixes.

For four days, they’ll be in your corner, sharing the tools, scripts, and mindset shifts that have worked for them and the families they support. You’ll hear from 20+ voices so you can take what fits, leave what doesn’t, and build your own parenting toolkit.

Thousands of parents and educators have joined our summits over the years. They’ve walked away with practical tools, renewed confidence, and the relief of knowing they’re not alone.

Your journey through the summit doesn’t have to be linear — but if you follow this path, you’ll move from understanding to action, from survival to connection, from overwhelm to empowered leadership.

Click each phase below to see the sessions and speakers…

Phase 1: Understand the Signal Beneath the Behavior

Lay the foundation by shifting from reacting to understanding. This is where everything begins. Because you can’t change what you don’t understand, and you can’t support what you’re still judging. This phase helps you see behavior through a new lens: not as defiance or disrespect, but as communication from a dysregulated nervous system.

START (Free)
Oct. 10, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

EXPIRE (Free)
Oct.11, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

Behavior Is the Language of the Nervous System

Lori DeSautels, Ph.D.

Professor at Butler University, Author of "Connections Over Compliance" & Speaker

What’s Really Going On? Noticing the Difficulty, Not the Behavior

Greg Santucci, OTR/L

Pediatric OT, Advocate, Founding Director of Power Play Pediatric Therapy

Sensory Sensitivities, Not Misbehavior: How Sensory Needs Drive Big Reactions

Caroline Fitsimones, OT

Pediatric Occupational Therapist, ADHD-Certified Rehabilitation Services Provider, Parent Coach

ADHD, Autism & Anxiety, Oh My! When Behavior Challenges Have Multiple Roots

Sharon Saline, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist and Author of "What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew"

Understanding the Emotional Roots of Acting Out, Shutting Down, and Everything In Between

Tosha Schore

Founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, Speaker, Trainer, Author

Parenting the PDA Profile: When Demands Feel Like Danger

Joy Eberhardt, MD, FAAP

Developmental Pediatrician

Phase 2: Tools to Support Regulation & Connection

Move from insight to action without urgency, overwhelm, or shame. This phase gives you strategies that actually work for neurodivergent kids, rooted in safety, connection, and skill-building, not compliance or control.

START (Free)
Oct. 11, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

START (Free)
Oct. 12, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

The Regulated Adult: Staying Calm When Kids Can’t

Dr. Gila

Clinical Neurophsychologist & Parent Coach

Building Emotional Safety for Cooperation and Confidence

Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC_SLP

Family Communication Specialist, Parent Coach, Host of the Complicated Kids Podcast

Co-Regulation in Action: How to Help Kids Calm Down Without Power Struggles

Sarah Wayland, Ph.D.

Relationship-based Dynamic Intelligence (RDI) Consultant & Co-Author of "Is this Autism?"

The Language of Belonging: Talking So Kids Feel Heard and Value

Renee Jain, MAPP

Founder of GoZen!, Speaker, Certified Life Coach, Co-Author of "Superpowered"

Co-Regulation in Action: How to Help Kids Calm Down Without Power Struggles

Penny Williams

Parent Coach, Creator of SIGNAL Parenting, Host of Beautifully Complex Podcast

Building Healthy Screen Time Habits to Make Technology Digitally Nutritious

Randy Kulman, Ph.D.

Founder of Digitally Nutritious & President of Learning Works for Kids

Phase 3: Create Safe, Supportive Environments

Shape surroundings that support nervous system safety and emotional growth. Now that you understand what’s going on inside, this phase helps you shape the outside to be more supportive — your routines, rhythms, and relationships.

START (Free)
Oct. 12, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

START (Free)
Oct. 13, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

From Meltdowns to Repair: What to Say and Do After Big Emotions

Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC & Diane Dempster, CPC, PCC

Parent Coaches & Co-Founders of ImpactParents.com

Creating Calm with Compassionate Routines and Visual Structure

Seth Perler, M.Ed.

Executive Function Coach, Activist, Educator, Former Teacher

Cooperation Without Control: How to Set Boundaries That Invite Collaboration

Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC-SLP

Speech-Language Pathologist, Trainer, Author of "Make Social and Emotional Learning Stick!"

Reframing ‘Bad’ Behavior in the Classroom and Beyond

Juliana Urtubey, NBCT

2021 National Teacher of the Year

Behavior at School: What Helps, What Hurts, and What to Do About It

Emily Kircher-Morris, MA, M.Ed, LPC & Amanda Morin

Co-Authors of "Neurodiversity-Affirming Schools: Transforming Practices So All Students Feel Accepted & Supported"

When School Feels Threatening: Supporting PDA Learners in the Classroom

Zach Morris, M.Ed.

Autistic Thought Leader in Education & Education Consultant

Phase 4: Lead, Advocate & Grow

Shape surroundings that support nervous system safety and emotional growth. Now that you understand what’s going on inside, this phase helps you shape the outside to be more supportive — your routines, rhythms, and relationships.

START (Free)
Oct. 13, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

START (Free)
Oct. 14, 2025
9 AM EST / 6 AM PT USA

Healing Your Own Triggers: Parenting and Teaching from Regulation, Not Reactivity

Debbie Reber, MA

Founder: Tilt Parenting, Host of Tilt Parenting Podcast, Author of "Differently Wired"

What to do When You Run Out of Compassion

Melissa Corkum

Blocked Care Specialist, Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) & Rest and Restore Protocol (RRP) Practitioner

From Frustration to Advocacy: How to Collaborate with Schools Without the Conflict

Scotti Weintraub, MA

Parent School Navigator, Educator, Parent Advocate, Founder of Reframe Parenting

Building Behavior Plans That Actually Work for Neurodivergent Kids

Michelle Pianim

Special Educator & Educational Coach and Consultant

The Sibling Piece: Supporting the Whole Family When One Child Struggles

Emily Hamblin, MA

Former Foster Mom, Certified Teacher, Host of Enlightening Motherhood Podcast

Success Without Sameness: Redefining What Growth Looks Like for ND Kids

Dayna Abraham

Author of "Calm the Chaos," National Board Certified Educator, Host of Calm the Chaos Podcast

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Hello!

I'm Penny.

I’m a parenting coach and host of the Beautifully Complex podcast. But more than anything, I’m a mom who’s walked this road.

When my son was diagnosed with ADHD and autism, I thought I could “fix” the hard stuff with enough effort. I read every book, tried every strategy, and still found myself bracing for the next meltdown.

It wasn’t until I understood his behavior through the lens of the nervous system — and started parenting from connection instead of control — that everything shifted.

Now, I help parents of complex kids move from constant reactivity to steady, confident leadership. Through the Regulated Kids Project, the Survival to Success Accelerator, and summits like Behavior SOS, I’ve guided thousands of parents and educators toward more understanding, less conflict, and stronger relationships.

I created the Behavior SOS Summit to bring you the guidance I wish I had years ago — practical, compassionate strategies from experts who get it, so you can feel supported, equipped, and never alone in this journey.

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Parents, educators, and other caregivers of kids with anxiety, ages 4 to young adult.

October 10-13, 2025. You have the option to watch 6 workshops a day, free for 24 hours after their scheduled release during the event. OR you can upgrade to the All Access Pass and have forever access to all workshops to watch on your schedule.

Yes! Behavior SOS is completely free to attend October 10-13. If you'd like additional perks like replays, bonuses, and more, check out the All Access Pass.

You can watch all sessions absolutely free during the summit event Oct. 10-13, 2025. At 9 am NYC time each morning of the event, 6 workshops will be available for free viewing for 24 hours. You'll receive further instructions via email, after you register.

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Free access gets you limited access to watch the workshops October 10-13, 2025, six each day. The All Access Pass offers unlimited ongoing access to all workshops, access to the workshops as a podcast, a workbook designed to highlight key takeaways and guide you through implementation, speaker bonuses, a live Implementation Lab Coaching, and a certificate of completion.

If you're not 100% satisfied with the content before October 11, 2025, I'll give you a full refund, no questions asked. I'm convinced that you'll love the workshops and all the bonuses — and see great changes from them — so I'm happy to offer this no-risk guarantee. 

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This is your antidote for big emotions + big behaviors.

Not a fix, a framework. Because some days feel like too much.

The Behavior SOS Summit is a nervous system–based blueprint that will transform how you respond, and how your child feels. We're not “fixing” behavior, and this isn’t just learning information.
It’s where overwhelm softens, clarity rises, and everything starts to shift.